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Snapshots From Hurricane Irma

09/22/2017 by John Leave a Comment

After The Storm


After the storm, the mud lay thick on the floor, oozing its way into every crevice of the house.

After the storm, the building where Mary and I first kissed lay scattered in pieces throughout the mangroves.

After the storm, there were plenty of good things to talk about, so why does the news only report about the bad?

Watching Over The Island

The debris fan spread out from the West Cottage like an airplane crash, objects smashed and scattered into a million tiny pieces. Strangely, there is no mud here. On the island, it must have all been water, wave after wave washing over it, battering all in its path. I sift through the pile and run across a familiar face, the picture pristine amongst the carnage. Tucker never did much like storms, but he seems to have sat through this one just fine.

 

 

 

The Stories We Write

There is a pile of mud soaked things growing higher in the front yard. My well-curated collection of sea kayaking books and a good sized portion of my Outward Bound instructor resources are a sodden mess somewhere near the bottom. I’ve held onto these things for years, but I couldn’t tell you when was the last time I opened up one of those sea kayaking books or used any of my resources on course.

In the end, the pile in the yard is just a collection of objects, their only value is in the memories I have attached to them, and as I grow older, even those fall by the wayside, more stuff added to the discard pile. Life is not defined by the objects, or the memories that we cling to. It is written in disappearing ink about what we are doing right here, right now.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: mindfulness, minimalism, Outward Bound

Wanting

03/24/2017 by John Leave a Comment

How much time do I spend wanting instead of living? I have spent hours stretching into days, weeks, and months of wanting. Meanwhile, life passes by unnoticed.

Of recent note, I want a tiny house, a Sprinter van, or any place to call my own. But I also want to travel. And I want to change my habits and the habits of everyone around me. I want things to be other than the way they are. The wanting is endless.

All of this wanting is nothing but suffering, an itch that can never be scratched. I want to learn a better way. I want to know the suffering that is my endless stream of wants, and see it for what it truly is: the impossible quest to swim against the current of constant change that is life.

Based on a journal entry from 4.17.16

Filed Under: Mindfulness, Uncategorized Tagged With: mindfulness, minimalism

The Stuff We Left Behind

05/29/2015 by John 2 Comments

Our bed piled with clothingWe have arrived at our first stop: my hometown of Huntsville, Alabama with a car overflowing with stuff that must be culled before we continue westward. It was a whirlwind as we desperately scrambled to find a place for all the things that filled our one bedroom apartment. I had thought we had done a good job of downsizing our possessions when we sold our home back in September, but the mountains of material that we sorted and shuffled over the past few days left me feeling overwhelmed and at times paralyzed. Though I feel the freedom of life on the road creeping into my bones, the burden of the stuff we left behind still weighs heavily on me.

I don’t know why it is that I feel such a weight from the physical objects that my life has accumulated. To me, each one represents a responsibility of some sort, whether it be a book to be read, a hobby that I claim I want to pursue, or just a thing that needs to go someplace (the environmentalist in me has a hard time throwing anything away). When I have a place to put these things, it is all too easy to place those responsibilities into the “I’ll get around to that later” category. Moving forces me to come face to face with those perceived responsibilities and deal with them head on. For me this creates feelings of guilt for the things left undone, even though those things were likely not all that important or meaningful, otherwise I probably would have done them.
I need to have a better relationship with my stuff. I think I know what I want: to have as few things as possible. I have known the freedom of what it is like to have very few possessions and I want that feeling to be something I experience not just while living out of a backpack. Getting from here to there is proving more difficult that I had hoped.

What about you? How do you relate to the “stuff” in your life?

Filed Under: Lifestyle, Uncategorized Tagged With: dirtbagway, minimalism

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