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Goodbye Portland

12/16/2017 by John Leave a Comment

Outside the window I see the lights of a plane climbing into the orange-tinted dawn sky. In just a few days as the sun rises over the Blue Ridge Mountains, we will be on a plane descending, coming back to Asheville again and the closest thing to home we have. Soon it will be time to gather the detritus we have scattered throughout the corners of this house and wonder how much of it we really need before we stuff it into a bag to haul back across the country. We’ll be leaving here with more stuff than we brought. How does that always happen? But the important things we will bring back with us are memories. Below are just a few.

View of Portland from the Sellwood Bridge

View of Portland from the Sellwood Bridge

This was a view I got a lot of while running around Portland.

Matcha Latte

Matcha Latte from the Rain or Shine Coffee House

The Northwest may be known for its coffee culture, but while here I developed a strong taste for matcha lattes.

Guitar players on the Deschutes River

My brother-in-law and friend playing guitar while on a rafting trip on the Deschutes River

I got to get out on the Deschutes twice this fall. One of the highlights of river trips is getting to hear my brother-in-law and his friends playing guitar in such beautiful theaters.

Mary and John at Cannon Beach, Oregon

Mary and I at Cannon Beach on a beautiful fall day.

Mary and John at Mount Hood

Out hiking with Mount Hood in the background.

We’ve had some great weather this fall and we’ve tried to take advantage of it by getting outdoors as much as possible.

Filed Under: Images, Travel Tagged With: minimalism, travel

Happiness Is Not A Place

11/17/2017 by John 2 Comments

Signpost at the northern tip of New Zealand

Signpost at the northern tip of New Zealand

We recently received the news that Mary is eligible to practice nursing in New Zealand. Currently, she has a recruiter in Auckland chasing down job leads for her. Though the possibility of living in New Zealand for an extended period of time is exciting, I have to remember that happiness will not come from the place where I live. Happiness is something I must cultivate with every action I take in each and every moment.

I often harbor the hope that a change in geography will create a change in me, that it will scratch the itch of restlessness that I often feel. Sometimes this pans out, such as when I left Alabama to work in North Carolina. Sometimes, it doesn’t work so well. Visiting the Bahamas is nice, but living there is not something I wish to do again. A change can bring a fresh start, a chance to be someone new. But the unsettled and mildly unsatisfied aspects of my psyche inevitably follow me wherever I go. No amount of distance can allow me to escape from myself. When I do not tend to the cause of my dissatisfaction, no stunning beach or breathtaking mountain vista satisfies me for very long.

I’ll have to remember this while I’m in that far away land, with a new panoply of stars spinning over my head, homesick for friends and family 10,000 miles away. Like my restlessness, a deep contentment also lies within me and it is up to me to encourage it to rise to the surface of consciousness. Wherever I am, there is a quiet, still place inside me that assures me that all I have is all I will ever need and that I am never truly alone.

Filed Under: Lifestyle Tagged With: travel

Happy Anniversary North Carolina Outward Bound

10/19/2017 by John Leave a Comment

Canoeing at sunset

A crew mate and I beginning a night paddle while on the semester course in Everglades National Park.

I am back in Asheville this week to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the North Carolina Outward Bound School. When I arrived at Table Rock in the fall of 1996 to be a student on a semester-long course, I was 26 years old and utterly adrift. I was depressed, unsure of myself, and where I fit in. Eighty-something days and hundreds of miles hiked and paddled later, I awoke on a mountain in Costa Rica with a sea of stars overhead and something I don’t think I had felt in far too many years: possibility. After years of being asleep, my eyes opened to the wonders of the world around me, and the realization that I can do so much more than I ever imagined. Outward Bound not only taught me how to live, it taught me how to be alive.

Thank you North Carolina Outward Bound, and Happy 50th Anniversary.

Filed Under: Lifestyle Tagged With: hiking, Outward Bound, sea kayaking, travel, whitewater, Work

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